The Durfee

Dear Perplexed,

 

Sorry you ended up being into a player. I know you're probably hoping he really likes you back, but don't let him blindside you. Like you said, there are 5 other girls he likes. Don't just turn into 1 out of 5 of those girls, try distancing yourself from him for a bit and see if he even cares enough to go after you. If he knows he can get girls, it'll give him confidence, but way too much confidence. He probably thinks he can get any girl he wants, he probably thinks he can treat any girl the way he wants to cause they'll still be interested in him no matter what he does. Don't be one of those girls. Don't make his ego even bigger. You can't force yourself to stop liking someone, and you can't choose who you fall for, but I'm just saying you should be more aware around him and don't be blinded. You've made it clear that you care about him, now it's your turn to see if he really cares about you personally, or if he just sees you as one of the other girls. You've probably tried fighting for a spot as his personal favorite crush against the other girls, and that's not fair. He has to prove something too, and you have to put up a little fight. Distance yourself from him for a bit and see if he goes after you, or if he just lets you go. Good luck!

 

Sincerely, 

A Durfee Warrior